Phase After Breakup

Phase after break up

Denial
at this phase, u selalunya akan berdalih yang dia ni dah bukan kau punya. kau anggap ni semua mimpi. kau nak anggap whatever happened is not meant to be. korang rasa, korang ada chance nak get back. korang tak nak mengaku yang si dia tu memang dah tinggalkan kau for good.

Throwback
phase ni phase paling pedih. ini waktu korang read back all the conversation u had on whatsapp,
twitter, or whatever. korang dengar lagu, korang teringat "eh, dulu aku pernah dengar lagu ni dengan dia" bila tengok movie, "eh, movie ni dulu aku pernah tengok dgn dia". korang pg tempat korang pernah date, korang nangis. tengok gambar lama2, korang nangis. even nampak orang yang ala2 rupa ex korang, korang sedih.  ini phase yang melibatkan banyak nangis dan throwback. paling sakit.

Rebounce.
time ni, korang biasanya dah ada rebounce. mungkin kawan lelaki/perempuan korang yg korang friendzoned. or maybe stranger that even better than your ex. u did this, with two puposes, 1) you want to try to move on. 2) u wanted to make your ex jealous. but trust me, your rebounce will not last. lepas korang tengok yg your ex tak jealous, korang kecewa balik. or korang rasa korang tak mampu lagi nak move on, korang break dengan rebounce ni. satu nasihat aku, kalau korang jumpa nice girl/guy time rebounce ni,  leave him/her imidietly. jgn sampai ada emotion attachment between you two. nnt korang rugi. sebab rebounce ni tak kan kekal lama. maybe you should save him/her after u completely move on.  trust me. i've been there couples of time.

Move on
kalau throwback phase tadi paling sakit, pedih, phase move on ni paling susah.  mcm mana kau nak tahu kau dah move on ? senang je. korang tahu korang dah move on bila
1)korang dah stop stalk dia.
2)korang dah delete gambar dia.
3)time korang dengar lagu fav korang, korang dah tak terbayang lagi muka dia.
4) whenever korang dengar nama dia, korang dah tak rasa apa apa.
5)u able to say "fuck you" with hate to him/her.

Not giving any fuck
well, this phase selalunya korang dah jumpa someone else or you just realise that you're happier this way. at this phase, u can hang out with your ex like nothing ever happened before. like a new friend.  korang tengok diorang bercinta dengan siapa pon tak jealous. korang gelakkan senyap2 kalau hidup dia berterabur. korang boleh ungkit pasal kisah lama tanpa ada rasa nak getback or kecewa. korang dah happy dengan hidup yang korang ada sekarang.

-that's that-